All Career Advice Can Be Boiled Down to This
When it comes to career advice, I feel like say the same stuff, over and over again. I like to think I’m finding creative new ways to say it and explain it. Once in awhile I succeed at that but often, I fail.
I haven’t written anything here in awhile because of this. So I decided to write about how I have nothing to write about because it’s all been written about.
Basically, your career comes down to these things:
- Be honest
- Be proactive
- Communicate well
- Build relationships, help others and be kind
- Work hard
- Focus, but be flexible
- Be curious and keep learning
How these apply to a job search or career development may vary over time and depend on individual circumstances, but these are the fundamental pieces of successful career development.
Anything I missed?
Resume Checklist: Seven Things to Examine Now
Crafting an effective resume is sometimes a tedious process and always never-ending. Once you have your basic info on paper, there are quick things you can do to make sure your information is presented in the best way. Since it’s fall on-campus recruiting season, I’ve seen a loads of resumes lately. The most common issues I see:
1. Too much or not enough white space. Hold your resume at arm’s length. Does your eye travel to a big, white, open space first? Then there is too much of it. On the flip side, if a reader cannot pick out your most recent 2-3 experiences and/or your educational information (for college students and recent grads) then the page has too much text, too few spaces or is just too messy. Use some white space to break things up.
2. Overformatting. Bold, italics, underlining, capital letters, etc. can all make the most important information on the page stand out. Few things on the resume need to be bolded, underlined, italicized AND capitalized. Use no more than two methods of emphasis at once. It works most effectively when used sparingly.
3. Gigantic name or teeny tiny name. Your name is important. It should be a few fonts sizes larger than the other items on the resume. But that’s it. Anything larger, even if it’s just with the best of intentions to help the reader remember who you are, makes you look like an egomaniac. Conversely, a name that is too small is difficult for a reader to find or remember. Never a good thing.
4. No results. It’s alright to list the tasks you’ve completed at your previous jobs/internships/extracurriculars but it’s better to include the result of your actions. What did you accomplish or achieve? How did what you did save money, make money or result in positive change for the company/organization?
5. Repeating verbatim the same skills/tasks. Each phrase or descriptive line on the resume should highlight a new skill or a new way in which the skill was used. One page isn’t much, so don’t waste space by repeating what you’ve already said in another section. Even if the task or skill being described is the same, the environment in which it was used is different and can at least be worded in a way that shows some diversity of experience.
6. Incomplete information. Every experience listed on the resume should include employer name, city/state, title and dates of employment. List all titles held at each company and the dates each position was held.
7. Using templates. You want your resume to stand out. To be unique. A template, by definition, is used to make things look the same. This is bad news if your goal is to stand out. Use a blank Word doc instead. Plus, templates turn into a hot mess when transmitted electronically.
Finally, get someone else to take a look at your finished resume to check for any errors. Sometimes a second set of eyes can catch things you might miss after looking at the document for hours on end.
Vacation Days: I Like Them
I’ve got vacation time on the brain, since I’ve been off all week. Deciding to take a week’s vacation and leaving behind several important, in-progress projects was somewhat stressful. I still don’t know how and when I’ll get it all done. But I took a week off, anyway, and am doing my best to not worry about the fact that students return to campus in a month and I’m totally not ready.
So why take vacation if it stresses me out? Because if someone is going to pay me to watch The View, paint my bathroom and sleep in, like I did this week, I’ll take it. Plus, I truly believe some time away from the office to focus on other aspects of my life will make me a better employee. When I return to work on Monday, I’ll be a more productive, rested and motivated employee than I would have been without some time off. And while I work hard, I’m not so arrogant to think my office will fall apart in my absence. Few people are that important.
Not using earned vacation does not make someone more valuable than their co-workers, it makes for a burned out, resentful, grumpy co-worker who has trouble setting boundaries.
I’ve heard people argue that employees who are away from the office are “out of sight, out of mind” and at a higher risk for losing their job, especially during tough economic times. An employee that demonstrates their effectiveness and value on a daily basis will not be shown the door as a result of their absence. If they do get laid off, it was probably in the works before the vacation.
Apparently, if Google is any indication, unused vacation time was a hot topic back in the early-mid 2000s. I was in grad school at that time, so my life, in comparison to working full-time, was a vacation. (Sleeping in ‘til 10 on the weekdays? Summers off? Check and check.) What was going on in 2006 that made this such a hot topic? Have things changed since then? I don’t think so.
What do you think? Do you use all your vacation time? Is the concept of vacation changing? Did I totally cheat on my vacation by checking my work email about 34923098 times?
Assumptions are Dangerous and Why I Dislike Wedding DJs
A few weeks ago I was at a wedding and was bullied into participating in the whole throw-the-bouquet-to-all-the-supposedly-desperate-single-ladies routine. The DJ went through the crowd badgering all the women about their marital status. When I said I wasn’t single, but couldn’t “prove it” with a diamond, he said my relationship didn’t count. (Because, apparently, this guy gets to decide who’s relationship counts. I’m guessing then, if you’re gay and live in a state that doesn’t allow gay marriage, your love and commitment doesn’t count, either). He went so far as to grab the chair of my brother’s date and literally drag her on to the dance floor. How is that acceptable? (Answer: it’s not).
I have issues with a lot of wedding traditions, but my main problem with this DJ (and most I’ve encountered) and this tradition in particular is that he made two huge assumptions about the ladies in attendance: 1) We’re all desperately hoping to get married and this is our top, if not only, priority in life, and 2) We’re all straight. For our humiliation playing into his assumptions, he rewarded one of us with the “ultimate” prize [insert eye roll here]: a dance with the lucky single guy who had the “honor” of catching the garter. How awkward a prize is that? Give me a real prize, like a work promotion or an all-expenses paid vacation, and then we’ll talk.
The DJ’s assumptions alienated those of us who didn’t feel the same way he does (and most of society, for that matter) about a (sexist and heterosexist) tradition. After I got over being angry (I’m over it, I swear. Obviously, right?), I realized that, for this guy, these assumptions and his behavior are usually accepted and normalized in his wedding-DJ-world. All of us have a worldview shaped by our lived experiences and the people to whom we’re exposed. This DJ has probably been exposed to a gazillion hetero weddings and lots of guests who are all too happy to comply with archaic traditions and the demands of the Chicken Dance.
But that doesn’t get this DJ off the hook. We all go to work with our unique filters, ways of making sense of the world and our idea of “normal”. So often, we impose these ideas on others without even noticing. The result? Workplaces in which employees in the minority, however defined, feel excluded and trust is lost.
How does this happen? It’s the co-workers who ask their colleague how he or she is going to celebrate Christmas, assuming that person is Christian. It’s asking a male colleague if his date last weekend had a nice rack because it’s assumed he’s straight (and that women should be judged based on how they look). It’s assuming a Black co-worker must know a lot about hip hop. It’s asking the newly married woman in your office when, not if, she plans to have kids.
Think before you speak. Be mindful of the impact of words and actions, not just the intent.
I’m a fan of workplace affinity groups and other efforts to retain diverse talent. When done well, they can provide support and advocacy for employees who identify with an underrepresented group(s). That’s not enough, though. To be good co-workers and more effective workplaces, we all have to examine our own biases and be conscious of when and how we might be inflicting our worldview on others. Don’t toss your bouquet to someone who’s going to let it hit them in the face.
Oops
Friends, I haven’t posted in forever. Sorry. Life has been busy with the end of the semester and the purchase of my first home.
Now I’m required to care about things like furnaces, water softeners, retaining walls and paint colors. Exciting stuff.
More to come… soon!
I Think I’ll Just Stay in College Forever
If you ask a student affairs professional how they ended up working in higher education, you’ll hear a lot of different stories, but most include something like, “I never thought about student services as something I could actually get PAID to do”. University administration is not a career most people decide upon purposefully or early on in life. Have you ever heard an 8-year old claim they want to be a residence hall director or an academic advisor when they grow up? Yeah, me neither.
My path to becoming a campus career advisor was equally winding. Now that I work in student affairs, however, I can’t imagine working in another field. The pros of working in higher ed? Glad you asked…
1. Lots of college campuses are exciting, energetic, dynamic places. There is never a shortage of things going on, issues to debate or thought leaders with interesting new research to share. It usually creates a great culture in which to work.
2. There is a shared mission among staff to contribute to the greater good and to help others. Unlike for-profit employers, our goal is not to make the company money (we’ll leave that for our friends working in the university development office). I work with extremely dedicated, friendly, altruistic and creative colleagues.
3. Though universities are not immune from economic downturns, relatively speaking, it’s a pretty stable industry. Especially since people tend to go back to school during tough economic times (even if some shouldn’t).
4. I am continually impressed by the students with whom I work. They are changing the world through social responsibility initiatives, running their own businesses, and conducting mind-boggling research. In contrast, when I was a college sophomore, I could often be found on my couch, watching Golden Girls re-runs with my roommates, eating EZ Cheez. Working with the students I see everyday gives me tremendous hope. (Though, I would argue Golden Girls helped shaped my personal growth and development in monumental ways, but that’s another post.)
5. College kids usually define what is “cool”, or are the first to find out about the next big thing. So, by association, I am instantly cooler.
Student affairs can include career and academic advising, student organizations and leadership programming, diversity and multicultural affairs, residence life, financial aid, international and study abroad programs, admissions, athletics and recreational sports and academic support services. With such a wide range of specialties, student affairs allows for a lot of different personalities and talents to find success.
Working in higher ed is not without its flaws. We are subject to office politics that can get in the way of helping students, our whole reason for being there in the first place. Few of us are getting rich, budget cuts are tough and opportunities for advancement are limited.
But, college was one of the best times of my life. As a first-generation college student, I felt privileged to even be there. Now that they let me in, I’m staying for good.
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Blog Comments and Your Brand
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I was in the middle of writing a new post for the Student Branding blog when I stumbled across this post by Grammar Girl about writing a good blog comment. It’s filled with great tips, so check it out.
Included in the post is a video from Sister Salad. It made me laugh out loud:
The video is an important reminder that blog comments are a part of your personal brand, so make sure they represent you in the way you want! And, proofreading is your friend.